When a man becomes addicted to pornography, it can become a perceived need rather than a choice for him until he becomes willing to reach out for help.His use of porn causes a release of the same chemicals involved when a drug is ingested.
At the height of his addiction, nothing, not even the risk of losing his job or his marriage, is enough to stop him.
This explains how a politician or celebrity can make such risky, career-destroying moves without stopping to consider the consequences.
We spent some time remembering and discussing uncle Frank until Jenny decided to go to bed.
After Jenny left the room, my aunt told us that she was a bit concerned about Jenny as she had become a bit withdrawn and wasn’t interested in going out with her friends or boys and pretty much kept to herself lately.
While a porn addict desperately craves love and intimacy (something he is probably unaware of), he seeks it out in the exact place that will cause him to become less and less able to experience it.
As I hear sexual addicts talk about their past, it becomes apparent why they are so uncomfortable with the idea of intimacy.
Anne and I were pleased, we both enjoyed the farm as my aunt had a beautiful house, a pool, horses and we enjoyed my cousin Jenny’s company, she was is a fun-loving adventurous girl who usually got us into trouble (the fun kind).
Just to paint the picture a little, Jenny was also 18 at the time, has brown eyes, is 5’4”, has long brown hair and 34-B bust and cup.
When we finally arrived, Anne and I were so relieved and settled in quickly.