Ahhhh, you’re in a new relationship and all things seem so wonderful!
It is extremely important to communicate and be very clear about your relationship goals.
If you are not looking for a long-term relationship or you are ONLY interested in a marriage partner and want to have kids and a family right away, you want to make sure that you are on the same page.
It is not a time to “hide” things from your partner.
If you have certain habits and regular activities such as smoking, or a regular card night with the boys, or going to Church on Sundays then you want to be honest and upfront and share with your partner things that are important to you and anything that is routine in your life.
Too many people at the early stages make the mistake of dropping everything and being totally “on call” for their other half.
I can tell you that this is NOT a good move nor is it very healthy or attractive.
What attracts most people to someone is the fact that they have a life!
What that means is that your life doesn’t revolve around your other half.
This is not to say that you can’t spend a great amount of time together if you both agree and genuinely enjoy spending time together.
It just means that you should not dismiss friends and family if they want to spend time with you also.
Please do yourself a favour and do not false advertise.