I work with couples and find that the core issue beyond masculine/feminine, is are you coming from fear or love? I advocate for people to come from this mindset: I’m already worthy and don’t need you to make me happy. If you’re looking for someone to love you when you don’t love yourself, it won’t work.The more I create an amazing life for myself everyday, doing work that I love and doing what fills me up, the more I attract amazing women.
I had the pleasure of interviewing Bryan Reeves on Last First Date Radio.
He’s a former US Air Force Captain turned Author/Coach/Speaker.
Bryan and I discussed one of my favorite topics, the essentials of masculine and feminine dynamics in intimate relationships. People automatically assume masculine is male and feminine is female. It’s about the duality of the human experience, yin/yang. My ignorance of this dynamic in relationship has cost me so much in terms of joy and enthusiasm.
Have men become more like women and women more like men? We practice adversarially, not as partners dancing as masculine/feminine. What I advise is that people stay connected to their heart.
Bryan has triumphed through multiple dark nights of the soul after hurling himself into the transformational fires of intimate relationship over and over again.
With a Masters Degree in Human Relations and massive insight gleaned through countless adventures, Bryan coaches men, women and couples in creating thriving lives and relationships.
And, if you are a ‘masculine’ energy female, she claims that you should pursue and date a ‘feminine’ energy male? But, wait a second – most of them are still single.
So, as I continued reading Allen’s Getting To “I Do” – Secrets to Doing Relationships Right, her theory started to make more sense.
They find balance in these men and enjoy the lightness that they often bring to the relationship.
If their lady is out of town on business, or needs to move thousands of miles away for work, they will have no problem following.
She simply joyously receives and this is what he loves about her.