Dating rules for my former self

Obviously the ick factor of a your husband having an affair with his wife’s mother is high.Y’all have an open marriage, he could theoretically be with anyone in the world, and he chooses your mom?I am drawn to men who are starkly different than my husband, who is an intellectual, moderate in terms of his vices and has a disdain for the type of men who spend every evening in a pub.

I can have a glass of wine in the morning and drink until I pass out in the afternoon and wake up when my lover comes home and go to the pub with him and start drinking again.

My husband can’t tolerate that behaviour which is why I moved in with my current lover.

I am a 34 year old straight woman in an open marriage with a 39 year straight man.

I have taken far more advantage of the openness of our marriage than my husband, at least until recently.

There has always been something lurking beneath the surface with them and since I haven’t been living with my husband for a long time, I guess she made her move and he couldn’t resist or maybe it was the other way around.

Knowing I can’t go back to my life as it once was makes me miss it so much.Have you had a “Hey, this isn’t really working” conversation before now? Would you have described yourself as “happily married” before you saw them together? Whatever the answers are, taking your mom on a date to your favorite local moving her shit into your house (which is still your house…I think? I REPEAT: ALL IS NOT WELL.” It’s nice that you are thinking about the possibility of forgiveness for your husband (after you break them up somehow, of course), but my read on this situation is that there is no going back to any kind of happy equilibrium in these relationships.) are not the stealthy moves of professional secret keepers, y’all. He’s always going to be the guy who dated your mom.My husband would be disgusted with the way I have let myself go and would probably refuse to have sex with me but he’s happily screwing my mother now and enjoying her perfect body. I would love to put an end to their happy little relationship.It is sick that my mother stole her daughter’s husband and I despise her for that.My gut says he/they did it on purpose so that you’d find out that way instead of telling you like the “consenting adults” they’ll condescendingly and repeatedly remind you that they are when you do eventually confront them.

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